We are all so quick to identify all the problems in our life. We go off trying to fix all kinds of issues that we think are so important to get straightened out. .
The real issue with the approach of identifying problems and chasing them down to solve them is that we are always stuck in the same levels of thinking patterns of the problems. .
We can’t see possibilities when we are busy identifying problems. .
To see possibilities requires a completely different level of
At times when things don’t work out, I can revert back to my old thinking patterns and tend to criticize myself. In my younger years, I picked it up somewhere that if I am hard on myself when I mess up, I will do better the next time, and if I do good then I should celebrate myself. That old reward and punishment system. But the more I did that, the less it seemed to work in favour of empowering me forward or helping me see myself in a better light. What I came to learn is tw